Men prefer to stand back and see the "big picture" and make a smaller number of big contributions then be logged down with a series of what seem like smaller , less important ones.
For example, a man may not often present his partner with a gift but, when he does, he brings a big one. Women's brain, on the other hand, are organized for fine detail and they make a wider range of smaller decisions on the many intricate facets of a working relationship. A women will allocate one single point for every individual thing a partner does in the relationship regardless of size, and two or more points for an intimate act of love.
If a man buys his partner a single rose, for example , she'll give him one point. If he buys her a bunch of six roses he still only gets one point.But if he bought her one rose every week for six weeks, then he'd score six points. A single rose is clearly for her, whereas a bunch of roses could be perceived as being a decoration for the home. regular gifts of a single rose show she's always uppermost in his mind.
Similarly, if a man paints the house, he gets one point. If he picks up his dirty clothes or tells her he loves her, he also gets one point each, in other words, the points are given for the number of actions taken, not for the size, quality or outcome of a single action. if he buys her a car or the diamond ring of her dreams he'll certainly score additional points at that time. But 95% of all points awarded in a relationship are for everyday things that do or don't happen. It truly is the thought that counts with women.
- taken from my favourite book " why men lie and women cry"
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Well said. :)
"But 95% of all points awarded in a relationship are for everyday things that do or don't happen. It truly is the thought that counts with women" - and thats the TRUTH!
Ravisekharan:
i can get the book or continue readong my blog i would write more from the book and also my view on that matter.
Lena:
i completely agree with you is the thought that counts with women thats why men find it very hard to impress them
Interesting.. May be I should get to read that book sometime. Have you read the book " Why men don't listen and women can't read maps?" Its an interesting one too, giving insight into why both genders behave differently .
Very interesting points.. Should I buy the book?
hey how is the book? is it good.
You might enjoy my latest post on the differences between men and women.
http://gujjuben.blogspot.com
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